Overcoming Depression & Anxiety

There is no single cause of depression or anxiety. In fact, the cause of these symptoms tends to be multifactorial, and overcoming it requires a well-rounded, holistic approach. Before you read on, I'd like to invite you to take a moment and ask yourself the following questions, "What could my body be trying to tell me right now?" "What signals might I have missed?" "What do I need more of in my life?"

Now that you have a clear understanding of what depression and anxiety is, here are some strategies to help you overcome it. If you have not yet read our previous blog, you will find it here.

What can I do to manage depression and anxiety

Rule out other causes. Anxiety and depression can often be symptoms of an underlying cause. Therefore, it is important to ensure you are working with knowledgeable health professionals (e.g., an integrative medical doctor) to rule out any potential nutrient deficiencies, food sensitivities, methylation issues, hormonal imbalances and/or physical health conditions etc.

Practice self-compassion. When we suffer from anxiety and/or depression we sometimes blame ourselves for thinking or behaving in a certain way. This is not helpful and is likely to fuel your worry or low mood. Try to speak to yourself in the way that you would speak to a dear friend, family member or loved pet. What would you say to a close friend experiencing the same pain and suffering as you?

Gently exploring your environment can also be helpful. Could it be that you are feeling burnout, overworked, or stuck in a job you hate? Could it be that you are in a toxic relationship, not getting enough sleep, or going through some personal stress?

Be present. When you notice your mind generating anxious or depressed thoughts or images, gently bring it back to where your body is. That is, bring it back to the present moment and engage fully in what you are doing. Our mind can be very good at digging up old and hurtful memories or events or thinking about things in the future. Using your breath as an anchor can be helpful.

Name it. Naming our feelings for what they are can reduce the intensity and impact they have on us. Practice saying, “this is anxiety”; “this is worry”, “this is sadness” or “this is my limbic system”.

Make room for it. Struggling with, trying to control, or avoiding our emotions only makes them stronger. Try localising them and creating some space for them. Ask yourself what would this feeling look like if it were an object? What colour is it? Is it sharp or does it have smooth edges? Does it move? How big is it? Where do you feel it? Is it deep inside you or towards the surface of your body? Once you have answered these questions, practice breathing in and around it.